I have written a book called "M/s for the Rest of Us" it is available for purchase here: http://www.lulu.com/shop/k-e-enzweiler/ms-for-the-rest-of-us/paperback/product-22151343.html

Or on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Rest-Us-K-E-Enzweiler/dp/1329062213/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1432825657&sr=1-2&keywords=m%2Fs+for+the+rest+of+us

I am the founder of the Albuquerque Masters Group. We meet once every other month. The group is open to all who wish to explore their Mastery, slavery, or Dominance and submission. Please contact me here or at my email : Bigdykebear@yahoo.com for more information!
The meetings are free to all who wish to attend!

If you are interested in power munches, skills workshops or play parties in the Albuquerque area please contact the 20 year organization of AEL at:


If you are interested in active online community please find:


Group names for the Albuquerque Community Include:

Land Of Enchantment Fetlifers

Albuquerque Kinksters

KinkySpot Clubhouse

Albuquerque Master/slave forum

New Mexico Leather League: Leather/Kink/Fetish and More

Thursday, April 30, 2015

PICS FOR Southwest Leather Fair !!!!

Saturday, May 2, 8pm to Midnight
SIDEWINDERS 8900 Central Ave SE

Please join the Albuquerque Leather Daddys and their partners, the Albuquerque boys of leather as we hold the Southwest Leather Fair on Route 69. 

The event is a FUNDRAISER FOR CASA Q, the new safe living space for homeless or near homeless LGBTQ youth. Tickets are $10 AT THE DOOR!!! 

There will be a FABULOUS FETISH CONTEST for who wears the best fetish gear. Doesn’t have to be leather, it can be sports, cowboy, jock strap or whatever your personal fetish may be. 

We will have entertainment, a silent and a live auction of goods, vendors for you to get some new gear, a Spanking Booth and much more! Live performances, demos. We hope to see you there and help us raise funds for the amazing CASA Q!

 tropical  chocolate bath melts

Caribbean  Goddess bath melts

Fizzy Willies form  the Bath  Dongs collection

 Truffle- tastic bath  bon bons

 leather and chocolate bear claw bath  melts

Thursday, April 23, 2015

MORE Preview PICS for Spring PAN!!!!

The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse will be at the Crossroads vending  table at Spring  Pan!  Jaime doing readings on  Runes, Lori  with her amazing dressed candles, eve with  her bath and body products and me with  my books!! 

Red "I believe in love" candle. W/ pewter heart charms & seashells.

Black "warrior's candle" w/ embedded bronze arrow milagro & pewter rattlesnake charm.
  house blessing candle w/ charm
  house blessing candle w/ charm

Black "who gives a shit" candle for the jaded among us. With pewter charm and Blue "aancestral beauty " candle to invoke the power of the ancestors to draw beauty into your life. W/ stamped brass bracelet and mother of pearl pendant.

Blue "aancestral beauty " candle to invoke the power of the ancestors to draw beauty into your life. W/ stamped brass bracelet and mother of pearl pendant.

Black "who gives a shit" candle for the jaded among us. With pewter charm

 White "balance is key" candle. Peace bronze key charm & PEWTER balance charm.

Black "big time" candle. Bronze elephant charm.

For more go  to the next blog down!! After all  the blah blah blah-  the pics are GORGEOUS! 


This week is Spring Pan. I am so wildly excited. Thanks to a sponsor we got a hotel room!  We are so blessed!  Thank you “D”!!! 

I will be at Exploratorium Friday night. I will be doing flogging- my favorite type of play. Then  on Saturday my  slave and  I  will be vending and then  I teach a hands on  flogging class from  3 -  4:15. 

Still  looking for a demo bottom  btw!!!!

This is a big deal for us. First, it is our first time vending, first time putting ourselves out there in that way. My slave puts her heart into  her works. she studies every day.  she reads,  talks with  more experienced people, and does research  every day. It is amazing to see her heart  and dedication in  this.

It is also the first time that my book will be available. According to the shipping records the books will be in on Friday. We only had enough money to buy 10, but that is OK. This is a life dream coming true, and I can’t get over the fact that it is happening. “M/s for the rest of U/s” was something that I never thought would happen. 

I wrote it. I even paid an editor to  complete it.  But when life got so bad I had to abandon the project. I just couldn’t think about getting a book out there when we had no water or heat. So a few months ago when the four of us (we call ourselves the 4 horses of the apocalypse - I am Famine. Ha ha) got together and they started pushing me for the book. So  I thought “Well --OK well- here goes.” 

 They agreed to  help  get it edited, and before I knew it I was published through Lulu. All  in time for Spring Pan.

I have wanted to be a writer since I was in my teens. I have wanted this for a very long time.

I can’t believe it is here. I never thought it would ever really happen. 

On top of it all of that it is our foray into this part of the community again in a big way. We have stayed out of some of the events for a bit. We were healing, coming to terms with life changing, trying to get everything under control. It was all so overwhelming. But now we are in a place that is really good. We are in a place that gets to  give back  and come from safety. We are coming from a place where it is time to get back into the world. And I love that.

So it is fun, exciting and very scary in a lot of ways. Being back – and having this community change and grow so fast --as it does.

So here are some pics of the vending that we will be doing.

It is like this starts something new for us in so many ways. But I feel ready. I feel prepared. 

They say that there is no such thing as real altruism. I think that for me anyway- that is true. I love to give back because it makes me feel like I matter.  Like I can have a place.  Wow – that got a lot deeper then I intended. 

So  enjoy Spring Pan everyone!

PLAY !!!! FUCK!!!!  CUM!!!!!

Goddess  lotion bars :   clary sage,  roman camomile,  and tart apple
 Heart massage bars:

Ylang - Ylang, palnarosa, yuzu, and sandalwood

 chocolate bath  truffles:

make the water feel  like silk:

coco butter, vanilla bourbon,
 bath  bombs: white:   lavender,  and crisp cotton
 bath  bombs : purple and yellow:

yuzu, lime, red grapefruit, lavender, star of Bethlehem flower, butterfly pea flowers
 Bear claw emulsified sugar scrubs:

cardamom,  vanilla burbon, hemp , almond oil

 Sleepy time lotion bars:

Douglas fir, lavender,  rosemary

 Rose dream   bath  fizzies!

Rose petals,  rose water,  geriaumin  rose oil,
palmarosa, YlangYlang, rose wood,  and Sacred  Datura  flower essence.

AND my first published book, second written  one will  also  be for sale at PAN! (This is a pic of the cover art-  the books arrive on Friday!) 

Friday, April 17, 2015

Play party fundraiser Update----kinda-----

Hello All!

 The fundraiser play party was EPIC!! 

I will  write more but currently I am  fighting a sinus infection  and bilateral ear infections.  
So  next week  I will  write more. I want to  really give everyone their due.

But first I have to stop  feeling like this.......

My nose looks weird......

Friday, April 10, 2015


Here are some of the amazing raffle prizes available at the event on April  11th. All  raffle proceeds go to  March  of Dimes!  Want to RSVP?  Contact me at  bigdykebear@yahoo.com  or on  Fetlife at Master_ _ Bear!!!

 From  Mistress M!!!!

A close up  of this GORGEOUS Piece !!!! 

A donation from " D" AMAZING!!

Self Serve donated this AMAZING paddle for your BOOT FANATICS! 

A close up  of the Self Serve paddle!  

Alison in Wonderland donated this amazing plus size corset!!!  

Mistress M and Vlad donated   a paddle and BRAND NEW restraints! 

Mistress M and Vlad  also  donated the is amazing set of 4 leather restrains, paddle and crop!   

Horns and Ninjet donated the BAD ASS face MASK! 

Lady Golden donated so many amazing goods!
This is candle, vase,  jewelery, and a sharp  knife! 

Lady Golden  also  donated these items! Flogger, vase, leather wallets and specialty soap!

Other donations include:  massages, a full  Spring Pan  package, my slaves homemade goods,  a first off the line copy of my new book, dump cake,   specialty teas sets, candles,  and MORE!!!!

Friday, April 3, 2015


I love and support my slave, and when she was accepted as a vendor at Spring Pan I was so proud and excited for her! For the last few weeks it has been a process of ordering and receiving so many things and me having no idea what they are. I just know that they excite her.

When she orders them, she tracks them, and updates me on their progress. When they arrive she will unwrap them slowly and excitedly. Then she will talk about what they are and what they do and how she is thinking about using them.

For Spring Pan she is working on bath bombs in all sorts of different colors, scents, and shapes.  Body lotions that she calls body butters, and other assorted things as her interest and excitement raises. I am so deeply proud of her. She is on fire with her experimenting and creating and I am thrilled that she has found something that pushes her I so many different ways. 

So the other day I was really struggling with going to work. It has been really hard on my mind, and she offered to make me a bath with one of her new bath bombs. I loved the idea!

I love her baths they calm and relax me.  They help me through hard times and after she had the new shower installed I haven’t been taking them.

So  I got ready for my bath  and I saw the two  bath  bombs that she had but in  the tub for me. The one was foaming and swirling in the water creating waves as it bubbled from one place in the tub to the other. The second one foamed and bubbled until it was covered in its own bubble cloud and the water had turned a deep ocean blue. The scent was immediately relaxing and as I sank into the tub I closed my eyes and enjoyed the silky feel of the water. It was just what I needed.

 About half way through my bath I was washing off and that is when I noticed the glitter. I hadn’t seen it before, but I did now. It was all over my skin, in my braid, and in all my crevices. 

There was no time to shower the glitter off before work, so I dried off, got dressed and went into work as is, glitter and all.

When I got to work I noticed a few stares. About two hours into my shift one of my crew came over and said hesitantly “umm, is that glitter?” I knew that it was coming so I said “Yes, and I love my wife.” 

A few minutes later someone else came up and asked the same question. I just giggled and said “yes and I love my wife.” It wasn’t long before my entire crew was bursting out laughing and before long I had been   re- named. 

I was now- Wait for it-drum roll please- “Glitterati Sparkles”. With appropriate jazz hands. 

I laughed so  hard that I couldn’t stop., They were deeply enjoying the idea that me- in  all  my masculine  gender bending glory was covered in  glitter from head to  toe. The rest of the night everyone could tell where I was going, and where I had been – I had trail.
People couldn’t pass without a giggle and I joined in. At one point the name “Glitterati Sparkles” was put on my name badge and I claimed it!  

It was a lot of fun. And then we had a code. The code team came. It wasn’t my regular team, so some of them knew me - but only by sight, and others didn’t know me at all.  As we worked through the code I saw the looks as people would take in my glittery sparkly self and new name, and then quickly look away, avoiding eye contact. 

And so Glitterati Sparkles was born.