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Leather Bear Tails is about the leather journey of my slave and I. It deals with all parts of the leather and BDSM experience from safety to predators, to skills, and all of the lovely mistakes that she and I make along the way!!
Also!! I have written a book called "M/s for the Rest of Us" it can be found for purchase here: http://www.lulu.com/shop/k-e-enzweiler/ms-for-the-rest-of-us/paperback/product-22151343.html
I have written a book called "M/s for the Rest of Us" it is available for purchase here: http://www.lulu.com/shop/k-e-enzweiler/ms-for-the-rest-of-us/paperback/product-22151343.html
Or on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Rest-Us-K-E-Enzweiler/dp/1329062213/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1432825657&sr=1-2&keywords=m%2Fs+for+the+rest+of+us I am the founder of the Albuquerque Masters Group. We meet once every other month. The group is open to all who wish to explore their Mastery, slavery, or Dominance and submission. Please contact me here or at my email : Bigdykebear@yahoo.com for more information! The meetings are free to all who wish to attend!
If you are interested in power munches, skills workshops or play parties in the Albuquerque area please contact the 20 year organization of AEL at:
If you are interested in active online community please find:
Group names for the Albuquerque Community Include:
Land Of Enchantment Fetlifers
Albuquerque Master/slave forum
New Mexico Leather League: Leather/Kink/Fetish and More
Friday, December 27, 2013
This is the time of the year that I love. For me, this is the
time for self reflection, it is a real
chance to look back and see what I have accomplished, how have I changed, what
is new in my life and what has been let go. It is a chance to clearly see what
has gotten better, what hasn’t, what I want to do, what I wanted to do and if my
goals are still relevant where I want to go
in life. Have I become more of who I want to be? Has who I want to be changed? Am I surrounding
myself by people that make me better, that challenge me, that want what is best
for me, and let me do all of those things for them? This yearly self assessment
is a hard thing, but a good thing, it helps me mark the time and take stock of
So today as I sit
here looking out a new window, prepping for my next semester of school, after I
have fed the horses the first of their two feeding for the day, I can
say yea- I think that this year
was well spent. I am still kind of stunned by all that has
changed, over the last four months especially.
I started school,
bought a new house, got married, started the Albuquerque Masters Group, and
have gone from “ohh shit” poor to “ok we can negotiate poor” ( that is a huge
step up BTW). I am
still trying to wrap my head around all of the people that came
out of the wood work for us, who selflessly
donated their their time, effort ,
energy, money, thoughts, and sweat to
get us where we are.
As with all things, some relationships that I have are stronger
than ever. Powerful, loving, hot, sexy and overwhelmingly beautiful. Other relationships
are slowing down, taking a hiatus, or restructuring to become other things.
This healthy, and good. As people change and grow sometimes that growth is in
the same area, or the same way, and other times, the growth is very different,
but the people are able to use that to push each other and support each other
creating a wonderful intensity. Sometimes it means that you become very
different people and that might mean time apart as people figure out what they can
reasonably to do with someone who has changed so much. Sometimes the relationship
is salvageable, sometimes it isn’t. Although the concept feels simple I put it
out there because the living of it is very much so the opposite. Change and grow many times means the death of
current relationships and it means choosing between your own growth and happiness
and your acceptance.
A lot of times we view this as people coming out as gay, or
kinky, or trans, but not always. Sometimes it means that the person just gets
more confidence, or that they start doing things that make them happy, or they change
how they think. It can be that simple and complex at the same time, and because
of these changes they have to leave people behind to ensure that they can
continue to grow.
In my life I have moved
- I think - 38 times now-
and there has been one thing that
has given me years of comfort- it is the
understanding that more often than not, people are transitory. They come and go in
your life as your needs and growth change. When someone is lucky the people in their
life are comfortable with them changing and growing, and those changes
strengthen their relationships, but most times, it just doesn’t work like that.
The good news is that you don’t have to stop growing because the people around
you won’t support that growth, there will be others. There will be more support;
there will be more love, more laughter, and best of all- your growth will allow
that to happen without compromising you.
So as I ask myself these questions at this point in my life,
I will also ask them of you:
What did you do this year to become of a more self defined,
stronger, better person?
Who are you surrounded by that strengthens you, and is not threatened
by your growth and instead pushes you to be more and better?
Next year when 2014 comes to a close what do you want to be
able to say about yourself that is different then what you can say now?
Happy New Year everyone, and may your blessings be as large
and fruitful as your dreams.