I am so
sorry that I won’t be able to join everyone for this weekend’s festivities. It
turns out that I have walking pneumonia. I was truly looking forward to my DM
shifts and talking with everyone and playing!!!
One of these
days I will actually get to play at an event and I am ACHING for it!
So I have a challenge
for you:
Getting
complacent in BDSM is really easy, especially if you have been doing it for a long
time. Everything can become comfortable and rote. That is not a bad thing, but
it can take away from some of the spontaneity, learning, and fun that new
things and challenges bring.
So I challenge
you to take the opportunity of Spring Pan and do something new. Something maybe
you have wanted to try but it never seemed like the time or the place.
A new type
of play, protocol, a new honorific, or way of communicating (for example hand signals).
So today think
about that thing- maybe it is something
that you have read about or something that you have masturbated about or
something that you dreamed about that you really have secretly wanted to try
and just never have because life or fear got in the way.
This weekend
is the perfect time to write it down, and give it to whomever (partner, fuck
buddy) and say “let’s do that!!!!”
Stretch
yourself- talk to that person that you have wanted to but were too intimidated
to.
Push those boundaries-
Make this
weekend the one where when you look back on it you can say- “Remember when
I/we/all of us did that?”
AND I WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IT!!!
I am headed back
to bed now.
(I would also
like to put out a very personal thank you to everyone who contacts me about my
blog spelling, grammar, ect…. Uhh- keep doing THAT!!!!!)
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