I have written a book called "M/s for the Rest of Us" it is available for purchase here: http://www.lulu.com/shop/k-e-enzweiler/ms-for-the-rest-of-us/paperback/product-22151343.html

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I am the founder of the Albuquerque Masters Group. We meet once every other month. The group is open to all who wish to explore their Mastery, slavery, or Dominance and submission. Please contact me here or at my email : Bigdykebear@yahoo.com for more information!
The meetings are free to all who wish to attend!

If you are interested in power munches, skills workshops or play parties in the Albuquerque area please contact the 20 year organization of AEL at:


If you are interested in active online community please find:


Group names for the Albuquerque Community Include:

Land Of Enchantment Fetlifers

Albuquerque Kinksters

KinkySpot Clubhouse

Albuquerque Master/slave forum

New Mexico Leather League: Leather/Kink/Fetish and More

Friday, May 9, 2014


Last Sunday my slave and I were in a GLBT wedding expo at the Hotel Albuquerque, organized by the amazing M.Montoya-  who  by  the way-  officiated our wedding and was AMAZING!  When we agreed to do it, we really didn’t know what we were signing up for.

It ended up being from about 9-2 for us and it was amazing. We had the best time.

 I was in a tux representing Ann Mathews bridal wear, and my slave was in a white wedding dress with a train.

 When we showed up that morning I had already told myself- “let’s do  this”   I wanted to  be open  to the experience  and everything that it would challenge me with.

It was challenging in so many ways- I allowed myself to do full hair and makeup- I thought - this is a once in a lifetime experience so why not?

So the people at Ann Mathew’s bridal LOVE their GAYS! And the makeup and hair people from Bliss Salon were really wonderful as well.

I can  say that this challenged me so  deeply-  I don’t wear makeup of get my hair what’s the word-  juzzed-  the only time I ever did this in  my life was at prom- and I was 18 years old. 
I am 41 now.

It was deeply difficult for me to have those things done- my hair and makeup- but the cool  thing is that I walked away 1) knowing that I could and 2) with  a better understanding of who  I was now in  comparison  to that 18  year old girl  who  just so  much  wanted to  be a  Cinderella -  I knew that I couldn’t ever be that -  but I just wanted it for that one night.

And now - I have become who I was meant to be.

Not Cinderella- but a different kind of fairy tale life- with a stunning, amazing, magical wife. And love in my life so strong and so powerful that I seek monsters to conquer now- instead of hoping the monsters don’t come to me.

What a powerful day.

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