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I am the founder of the Albuquerque Masters Group. We meet once every other month. The group is open to all who wish to explore their Mastery, slavery, or Dominance and submission. Please contact me here or at my email : Bigdykebear@yahoo.com for more information! The meetings are free to all who wish to attend!
If you are interested in power munches, skills workshops or play parties in the Albuquerque area please contact the 20 year organization of AEL at:
If you are interested in active online community please find:
Group names for the Albuquerque Community Include:
Land Of Enchantment Fetlifers
Albuquerque Master/slave forum
New Mexico Leather League: Leather/Kink/Fetish and More
Friday, March 8, 2013
Tons of SHIT TO DO!!!!!!!
Last month was New Mexico Fetlifers four year anniversary. When read the post I wanted to take a few days before I said anything. I wanted to really think about what it was that NMFL has brought into my life and write a heartfelt reply.
So that got me to thinking about all of the things that I have experienced because of someone else s organizational efforts and how lucky I have been that Albuquerque has such strong groups that consistently produce these events.
From AEL to NMFL to the individuals that run their private groups I feel very blessed to be in a place that has so many places where a person can find a home.
A person doesn't always fit everywhere but with so many options there is a wonderful chance that everyone will eventually fit somewhere.
Some of the things that I would never have gotten to experience in my lifetime had it not been for the amazing behind the scenes people of Albuquerque have been:
Being an RGL title holder. Riding in the Pride parade and facing the supporters and the haters.
Thanks to AEL I have heard people speak that have lived leather for 50 years, and how our community has grown and changed and challenged each other. Listening to people talk about all kinds of play, and toys, safety, history, and relationships.
Because of AEL's monthly parties I have been able to scene publicly enough so that I developed the skills to play and stay focused on my slave when there are others watching. As well as to be able to deal with someone that is attempting to take me away from my scene, or my slave away from her head space. Not just deal with them, but do so in a way that doesn't stop the flow of what we are doing. I also now remember to wipe down the equipment, and have learned how to protect my slave in her post play space. Those are things that you can only learn by doing, and doing consistently.
Thanks to NMFL I have been able to meet my idols Jay Wiseman and VI Johnson. Not just meet them, but have actual face to face time to talk to them. Then there was when Guy Baldwin praised my slaves cooking- I will carry that with me for a long time. I loved playing with liquid nitrogen, hearing Patrick Mulcahey and his slave talk, and the stories of people that I would never have been able to meet otherwise. I have also had the chance to learn about the bigotry surrounding pro Dommes that comes directly from our community that still blows my mind.
Thanks to the Brickhouse Betties I have been able to come to terms with being a person of size. Listening to and taking part of open and frank discussions that dealt with people’s bigotry, pain, and love has changed my life. It changed how I view myself, my body, and how I have the right to be treated as a person of size. It also opened my ears to the messages that I am being sent- so that way I can hear them fully- and tell them to fuck off.
Thanks to all of those that put their personal efforts into AEL Kinskills I am now a more knowledgeable and skilled player. The real thrill has been watching other people take what skills that Kinkskills has brought them and actively use them. That gives me great great joy.
There is so much that I wish that I could put down here but it would be a long long blog!!!