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I am the founder of the Albuquerque Masters Group. We meet once every other month. The group is open to all who wish to explore their Mastery, slavery, or Dominance and submission. Please contact me here or at my email : Bigdykebear@yahoo.com for more information!
The meetings are free to all who wish to attend!


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Land Of Enchantment Fetlifers

Albuquerque Kinksters

KinkySpot Clubhouse

Albuquerque Master/slave forum

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Friday, June 6, 2014

BDSM in Quotes

“A Master is not someone who merely revels in the benefits that he reaps from the power and control that he wields over his sub. A Master is not just an automaton who emotionally doles out orders and watches with amusement as his minions perform his bidding. A Master is not a person who only relishes the benefits that his superior status entitles him.

Certainly all of these characteristics could and often do exist within a Master. He may be demanding and at times selfish. He may genuinely enjoy and even be aroused by the power that he has over a sub. He may be able to expertly control his emotions, issuing his commands and enforcing his discipline with stone-faced determination.

But a true Master, a Master such as Matt, was so invested in his sub that he was actually in a way a slave himself. He was a slave to his love for me. He was a slave to his responsibility. He was a slave to the passion and the commitment. He was a slave to his overwhelming desire to protect his property at all costs. He was a slave to his slave. I knew without questions that he loved me so much he'd literally lay down his life for me. He owned me, and his ownership owned him”
Jeff Erno, Puppy Love 2: Building a Family 




 “It's been so long since I made love I can't even remember who gets tied up.”
Joan Rivers


 “If my Master is lost, I'll find him. I'll lead him back to himself, because to serve doesn't always mean to follow.”
Joey W. Hill, Hostile Takeover 



 “Right on the edge of fear was where trust could grow.”
Cherise Sinclair, Breaking Free 



 “It felt like he’d been dragged through the nine circles of hell — by his testicles.”
Kay Berrisford, Bound for the Forest



 
 “Fear triggers the fight-or-flight response, fueled by adrenaline, which, as it turns out, is chemically related to amphetamines. Granted, it's a very different kind of high for mindfuckers: not a mellow, floaty "my vulva is one with the universe" high but a jittery, revved-up "oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck" kind of high. Endorphins are like great downers but adrenaline is uppers all the way. And it's just as addictive. Don't believe me? Go ask anyone who likes to jump off bridges or out of airplanes. - Edge”
Tristan Taormino, The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge 


 “That's what's so ironic about the conservative backlash against BDSMers. With increased visibility comes increased bigotry, and conservatives continue to rally against kinky events by local groups to get them shut down. What the anti-kink fanatics don't understand about us is that we're geeks. Sex nerds. SM intellectuals. We pay money to spend a weekend going to classes.”
Tristan Taormino, The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge 


 “But, chiquita, you must understand that while you are here, I expect you to come to me and share your fears. Even if I am the one causing them.”
Cherise Sinclair



 “Sticks and Stones may break my bones,
but whips and chains excite me.
So throw me down, tie me up,
and show me how you like me.”
Skye Eagleday, Dark Passions: Dark Romance Boxed Set






7 comments:

  1. Many good quotes. I certainly don't identify as a master, and if I ever did, it would be because I had a person I was master to. Which I don't, and I would expect it to take a long time and lots of work, to get to that place. But here is a very thought provoking comment that a friend sent me: "I get a high from your submission in knowing that what I do is to please you.".

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  2. I completely understand getting a high. Sometimes I get a high when we are playing, not just form the play- but also off of the feeling of consent- I get that !!!

    Mastery is a lot of work- but so is anything that is worth learning and growing in. I saw your amazing picture with that weight in your hand- that by the way- is a hot hot picture- but also the amount of dedication that must take. I am very envious!



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  3. Thank you. For me, lifting heavy really makes me feel good (emotionally and physically). As far as the mastery goes, we shall see. I'll definitely let you know if I'm trying to really negotiate such a complex new thing. (New to me). Im happily single, most of the time

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  4. That is really awesome, I always wish that I had that interest, just never stuck with me.I would pick it up and put it down again. Ha haha---


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  5. Well if you ever feel a little crazy, come try highland games. Its fun and you can be great or be terrible. .. its still fun. Practice every Sunday morning. All welcome.

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  6. Where can I find information on that?

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  7. If you use Facebook look at the new mexico celtic athletics group. Or IM me on fetlife if you would like the email address for the group listserv

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